About Annie

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I grew up having difficulty saying ‘No’ and being a people-pleaser (which means often making other people’s desires a priority but frequently forgetting about your own desires).

Because I am sensitive, I excelled at tuning into other people’s moods and emotions. I excelled at knowing what they wanted but I frequently didn’t know what I wanted. Because of this I had a difficult time speaking up for myself and I also had a difficult time saying “No.”

Most of the time I only knew what I wanted after the conversation had already ended! Later, I would criticize myself for not having known what to say. I so wished that I could be tough, like everyone else.

I am a highly sensitive person (HSP) and like so many highly sensitive people, I was often told as a child and young adult that I was “too sensitive”. Hearing this often made me feel alone and sometimes made me think that perhaps something was wrong with me.

At other times, I didn’t care what other people thought about me because I loved being able to perceive the beauty around me, especially in the natural world, that so many people seemed to miss out on.

Even today, my husband will sometimes tell me that I am “too sensitive”. He may be right or wrong; it really doesn’t matter to me because I now believe that being sensitive is so much better than not.

My world is so much richer because of my sensitive traits. I see more, I hear more and I experience more joy because of it.

If you are wondering if you are a people pleaser or how sensitive you are, be sure to sign up for my free gift, Self Esteem Starter Kit. It includes two self-assessments that will quickly help you answer these questions.

What has brought me to where I am today was enrolling in best selling author, Debbie Ford’s coach training program.

I discovered that I was beating myself up with all that self-criticism, that it was hurting my self-esteem and confidence and killing so much of the joy of living that I could have been experiencing.

I learned how to listen in to and value my own wants and needs and how to nurture myself with powerful practical and spiritual tools. My life transformed from strongly disliking myself to loving myself.

Since I completed that in-depth two-year training with Debbie, I have developed additional tools for myself and my clients that create peace of mind and build self-esteem and confidence with healthy boundaries.

I invite you to join me on the path to becoming your authentic self; living with joy and meaning, peace of mind and purpose.

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Annie’s Approach

I have read many, many articles that tell women who have difficulty saying “No” (called people pleasers) what they should be doing. This is the last thing you need to hear. (This also applies to sensitive women who are usually highly conscientious.)

You already excel at telling yourself what you should be doing and all this “shoulding” on yourself hasn’t worked to create the inner peace, confidence, and clear sense of purpose that you’ve been yearning for.

Instead, this habit has served to keep you feeling stressed and overwhelmed. You are already very responsible – to other people. There is only one person who has been forgotten. Do you know who that person is? Yes, that person is you!

Now is the time for you to step out of hiding who you truly are. Now is the time to drop the smiling mask and identify what makes you feel deeply nourished and fulfilled and then to act on that wisdom.

If this feels scary, I want to tell you that I am here to support you step-by-step. Together, we will listen in to discover what you truly desire. Then, I’ll help you reveal the limiting beliefs keeping you feeling stuck and stressed. You will learn empowering and easy-to-use tools to de-stress and assist you in letting go of those old limiting beliefs and step into who you’ve been longing to be.

You’ll leave behind worry and second-guessing yourself. Without all that worry, you’ll have more energy and time for what you want to doing. You’ll enjoy living with confidence and joy. You’ll experience improved and happier relationships and will be making long held dreams your new reality.

Annie has helped me to work through issues that felt stuck and used up too much of my energy, often leaving me tired and frustrated. I now have tools I can use to get back on track when I need to and I have the confidence, calm, and high self-esteem I was looking for.
~ Cathy, Stay-at-Home Mom

I have been on this path myself and have guided and supported my clients in walking this path too. It’s a clear step-by-step path that my clients have found to be empowering and joyful. Are you ready to take the first step to living with peace of mind, self-esteem, confidence, and joyful purpose? Will you join us?

Working with Annie

Step 1: Sign-up to receive Annie’s Self Esteem Starter Kit.

Step 2: Take the self-assessments in Annie’s Self-Esteem Kit

How’s Your Self-Esteem?
Are You a People-Pleaser?
How Sensitive Are You?

Step 3: Are you wanting additional guidance for self-love, inner peace, boundaries, and easier decision-making?  Visit Annie’s  Products Page.

Step 4: Interested in individual coaching with Annie? Visit the Coaching Page and click on a blue bar to apply for a complimentary Peace of Mind and Self-Esteem Strategy Consultation. We can meet in-person, on the phone, or with Skype.

Here’s what we’ll do in your consultation:
Annie will help you create a vision of the life you want to be living now. Then we’ll look at what’s keeping you stuck and not living that vision now. If it seems that we would work together well, Annie will share with you her best program to help you achieve your goals and dreams now.

Note:  The Passion Test  – has no consultation. Just purchase the program and we’ll schedule your three sessions.

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Training and Experience:

  • Integrative Life Coach Certificate – The Debbie Ford Institute for Integrative Coaching at JFK University
  • Certified Passion Test Facilitator
  • True Purpose Coach (Discover Your Life Purpose) training with Tim Kelley
  • Hakomi Therapy (two-year training), is a present-focused method honoring the mind/body/spirit connection
  • Certified Renewing Life Facilitator, a supportive educational program for people coping with life-threatening illness, their supportive family and friends, and medical staff
  • M.S. in Counseling Psychology with training and work experience as a grief counselor and grief recovery group facilitator

Annie Notestein, MS, is a Certified Professional Integrative Life Coach. She trained personally with best-selling author and life coach Debbie Ford at the Ford Institute for Integrative Coaching at JFK University.

Annie is certified in Debbie Ford’s coaching programs: Essentials For The Best Year Of Your Life and Courage: Overcoming Fear and Igniting Self-Confidence.

Annie utilized Debbie Ford’s Essentials for The Best Year Of Your Life, Your Heart’s Desire and Courage: Overcoming Fear and Igniting Self-Confidence coach training programs to speed her own development from being extremely shy to living her dream of speaking, teaching, and writing to help women who have difficulty saying “No” and sensitive women come out of hiding who they truly are and live lives of inner peace, joy, and purpose.

Annie is also a certified Passion Test Facilitator, trained personally by Janet Atwood, the author of The Passion Test. Annie offers the Passion Test as a workshop and for 1:1 clients.

Before discovering coaching, Annie earned a master’s degree in Counseling Psychology and worked as a grief counselor. She completed a two-year training in Hakomi Therapy, a present-focused method that honors the mind/body/spirit connection. Annie uses these skills to listen deeply to her coaching clients and help them focus in the present moment to discover what is blocking their progress, listen within to discover their next right step, and move forward with confidence and joy.

Annie is a trained group facilitator teaching her own Step Into the Life of Your Dreams, Manifest Abundance, and Connecting with the Power of Your Soul Workshops. Personal growth-focused book groups she has facilitated include Julia Cameron’s The Artist’s Way and Sonia Choquette’s Your Heart’s Desire.

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Annie’s Clients’ Success Stories

SONY DSCAnnie’s coaching has helped me to create a vision for the life that I want to have. By doing this, I have been able to identify areas of my life that needed changing and Annie coached me through the process of making practical goals. I have been able to complete a lot of unfinished projects that I didn’t realize were sapping my energy. Already, I am making more time for myself and feeling more relaxed and energetic. Thanks!

~ Caroline Kramer, MD

The Essentials For The Best Year Of Your Life Coaching Program showed me what was keeping me off balance, worried, and wondering what other people thought of me.

I have learned to take care of my own needs and look for what’s right in my daily life by journaling and connecting with my heart.

Annie has helped me to work through issues that felt stuck and used up too much of my energy, often leaving me tired and frustrated.

I have been able to leave struggle behind and it has been an empowering journey.

I now have tools I can use to get back on track when I need to and I have the confidence, calm, and high self-esteem I was looking for.

My home is now completely organized and I feel comfortable and confident with other people.

Annie has been very supportive and has taught me empowering tools I enjoy using!

~ Cathy, Stay-at-Home Mom

Annie’s coaching really helped me connect with what I want out of life, helped me to become more organized, and set up a schedule to get things done and no longer procrastinate. Annie also helped me to find out what I really want in my work life as a future goal.

~ Gail Sandow, Large Corporation Retiree

Annie’s support and encouragement helped me move out of a period of being stuck and operating on automatic pilot back to a joyful life filled with energy and enthusiasm.

~ M.S., Retired Teacher

You have a very warm presence that I feel safe in.

~ David G., Massage Therapist

Before I embarked on the Courage Coaching Program, life felt kind of humdrum, I felt unmotivated and like a coach potato; I was enjoying life but I wasn’t inspired. I often said “Yes” at work to make everyone happy when I wanted to say “No”.

I was working on planning an international trip but every time I thought about it, I felt trepidation and it seemed that the trip itself would be very stressful.

Now, I have more energy, stronger self-confidence, and am saying “No” more often at work which is helping me to feel a lot more secure and good about myself.

I’m glad to say that I enjoyed getting my trip planning started while working with Annie and the trip turned out to be awesome. I am now much clearer about what I want out of life and I now have spiritual tools that I use to feel more courageous and confident when I need it. I feel a lot more comfortable, courageous and I’m having more fun!

Annie is very easy to talk to and was a great coach throughout the sessions.

~ Brenda F., RN Hospital Supervisor

Annie’s Teaching:

Step Into the Life of Your Dreams by Annie Notestein

You changed my life! I was at a crossroads in my life and didn’t know which way to proceed. Annie helped me to find out who I really am and what I want for my life.

~ Lee, Artist

This workshop helped me to start to see a different way of looking at life – a more positive, hopeful way.~ Caroline Kramer, MD

I highly recommend this workshop. It helped me open up and visualize ideas for implementation in real life.

~ Gisela Moffit, Retired Professor

Connecting with the Power of Your Soul Workshop by Annie Notestein

Annie is a natural facilitator.

~ Kathleen Marks, Massage Therapist

The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron

The sessions felt comfortable – like conversations with friends – where everyone was welcome and encouraged to share. What surprised me was how much I gained with such a small time investment.

~ Anne Sturtevant, Bead Business Owner, Bead Artist and Technical Writer

Annie’s insight and calm demeanor helped lead the way to the rejuvenation of my creative self. This class brought many unexpected gifts to my life and I would highly recommend it!

~ Kim Zielke, M.D. and Yoga Instructor

I am now more productive than before the course. Annie asked the right questions and helped you find your individual answer.

~ Blue Dingman, Artist

Your Heart’s Desire by Sonia Choquette

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You have helped change my life tremendously, especially by inspiring creativity and challenging me to address the areas where I need to grow.

~ Victoria Sladek, Massage Therapist